Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas Eve #5- Last One!

We did it! A total 1119 served with the Good News of Jesus Christ!

Woo hoo!

God is good.

Loved the mellow cello and piano music at this service with lots of carols and scripture readings. Excellent crowd (and yes, there were repeaters!) Thoroughly enjoyed seeing our college student in worship tonight! What a hoot!

Thanks for dinner- Staff Parish Committee you brought in a yummy supper for the staff. We appreciate not eating PBJ sandwiches on Christmas Eve.

Thanks for all the other goodies that arrived on my desk during the night. Santa has been here! I shall enjoy opening them!

Merry Christmas!

Blessings to all and to all a good night!

Friday, December 24, 2010

Christmas Eve #4.5

The Incarnation Among Us


For God

husband whose heart fails him kissed his wife's hand while she rocked their son & sang

so loved

glow of light warmed a young girl's face as she waved to her momma from the first row

the world
once strong man now shrunken in gasped for air and beckoned a prayer of blessing

God gave

mother of boys corals them in a pew wiping tears of... frustration, pain, and joy? that only God can know

The Only Son

pixy-sweet girl nose kisses her momma while remembering her Nana's journey into heaven



Christmas Eve #4

Down hill Santa slope now... with only one more service to go. By the time we get finished with this last worship service the new day of Christmas will be here! WAHOO!

Gorgeous, gorgeous music! Wow! Absolutely fabulous! Familiar faces, new faces. Faces shedding tears and other faces with big grins on them! WOW! Loved it! !!!

5pm 379 served at the Lord's table
7pm 388 served at the Lord's table
9pm 226 served at the Lord's table

Now comes the final clean up and touches. Sometimes at the 11pm service we see 'repeaters'. Folks who just want to be in worship as the new day begins. How fun is that?!

Me- I've got some thank you's to write and get ready to mail.

Choir loft is littered with water bottles. Todd's voice is getting scratchier than his beard. Jen cannot stop smiling. Andrew and Megan have not set any luminaries on fire this year. And Mark has been burning calories all night running to and from the organ loft! What a team!

Christmas Eve #3

Half way there! Two done and two to go!

I was minding my own business vacuuming the sanctuary when two different men came and stole the vacuum cleaner from my hands declaring, "That is not work for the pastor!" ha ha! Only time that will ever happen!

Best ever Christmas Cantata! Wow- to the music, the songs, the people, the candles, and the Holy Communion! Gorgeous.

I lost count of all the people!

Love me some Jesus! :)

Christmas Eve #2

WOW- what fun! We sang Happy Birthday to Jesus! Shared at His table and were blessed!

And I think I tear'd up throughout the entire thing. Gosh- my mascara may not make it for 3 more services. Where is my Mary Kay lady when I need her?

My tears were helped along by the Baby Jesus' sister who knew her line (as the Angel Gabriel)- "Do not be afraid" which means (in Mackenzie Noland language) don't be scared! ha ha!

Time to switch things around for service #2 with the choir's cantata, more great music, Holy Communion, and the candles!


Christmas Eve #1- the Pre-Worship blog

Hello there! This moment marks the third annual blog-through-four-Christmas-Eve-worship-services for Michelle! 5, 7, 9, and 11pm! Yeah- baby!

Hope you are ready for the inside scoop on the behind-the-scenes fun and action here at Calvary UMC in good ol' snow covered (and yes, it is snowing right now) Brownsburg.

The sidewalks and parking lot were clear moments ago. We are poised and ready for some worship!

The Youth Choir (GLORY) are rehearsing. And I have yet to see Baby Jesus and his Ensemble arrive to get dressed. My children's sermon ala' props hidden in the manger are ready to reveal... this first service is loud, wiggly, noisy, crazy, chaos!

It is all good! :)

Blog again soon!



Friday, December 17, 2010

Broken

What do you do when...?

  • furnace's heat exchanger cracks (get a new one)
  • garage door spring busts (have it fixed)
  • windows rot (get new installed)
  • dishwasher leaks (buy a new one)
  • light switches fail (get an electrician to fix it)

I do not know what you do when all that happens within a 12 day period. But my husband screams, "I want to move!" And then he tries to convince me it is a good idea to stop being a home owner because we are watching our emergency fund dwindle and dwindle and dwindle.

I shall just put a big red bow on the house on Christmas Eve and tell my kid that she has a warm, easy-to-enter, weather sealed, non-leaking, bright lit house from Santa for a present!

Untitled Poem

Saw you from afar
and close
arrogance slapped my face
strength pushed out the walls
you were you

today I see you from afar
and close
limbs thin, muscles drawn-in
weakness collapses the walls
you are you

but not the one, I knew

for your Soul tickles my cheek
depth and warmth envelope me
and I wonder

wonder at the transformation
of you
and
me

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Do Over!

Here's to wishing on a 'do over' for today's call to have school. My itinerary for a snow day was all planned, prepared and organized. But no- it was not to be.

Now I am caught up on work at the office, but behind on baking at home. sigh. Just cannot win. Christmas Eve is a week away with two gifts to purchase and wrap, baking to finish, and gifts to deliver.

Then, the fun begins because we're planning our trip to the not-so-warm western coast of Florida! We just might need a 'do over' of Florida weather too!

Friday, December 10, 2010

Operation Classroom- Education Ministry in West Africa

Here is an amazing story of a young person making his life better through education... I just received this information from Joe Wagner who is working in West Africa with our United Methodist schools there.

This student is from Albert Academy. Though he is not from Taiama, it does show how determined some students are..

Abdulai Kamara came to Freetown in 2001 with no one to care for him. He ended up staying at Regent Street, sleeping under the gutter. In the morning he moves from house to house collecting garbage (household rubbish)proceeds from which he used for his feeding and the other part payment private lesson fees as he was determined to learn.

After his first 2 years of garbage collection, and as his savings reached some level, all by himself, enrolled in a Primary school. He as the NPSE examination in May 2007 and chose Albert Academy Junior Secondary School as his School of choice for the JSS program.

He is hardworking, serious and determined, sat for the examinations in 2010 and made his mark to enter the senior secondary school. Up to this day Abdulai still lives at his usual gutter, collecting garbage to feed himself and support his education. He will be awarded an Operation Classroom Scholarship.

What an amazing young man! May God bless his hard efforts!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Meeting with Santa Claus

Sunday evening in the cold and snowy night Santa arrived unexpectedly at the door our friend's home. I thought the children's eyes would POP out of their heads. "Santa, here?!"

He was a wonderful Santa too... gave peppermints to everyone, told a wonderful story about the joy of giving, listened to each child's list of gifts, and took countless photos. Santa made sure each child was being good, doing homework, and cleaning their rooms. Santa asked our daughter if she was riding the purple bike he gave her.

To our surprise Santa inquired about all the grown ups too. He asked us if we were registered to vote, change our oil every 3,000 miles, and took good care of our families. Gosh- I didn't realize he was paying attention to us!

The best surprise about Santa came at the end of his visit. Santa gathered everyone at the party into a big circle to hold hands. And then he prayed with us! Yep- Santa does indeed work for and with God/Jesus/Holy Spirit! He prayed blessings upon us and offered thanks to God for Christmas, Jesus, and the joy of generosity.

Loved it! Best visit with Father Christmas ever. And just a tiny foretaste of what it will be like to visit at the feet of our Heavenly Father.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Adventing, we go!

With Advent full speed ahead, the Tooth Fairy paid us a visit last night. Her visit was timely and important because now my daughter has even more cash to buy me a really nice present from the dollar store to go with her homemade present from kindergarten! I just may get that plastic back scratcher I've been eyeing since Mother's Day.

The Tooth Fairy's arrival does indeed affirm our household's belief in Santa, Easter Bunny, and leprechons. (Did I mention my husband's family are firmly committed to their Irish roots?) We do not, however, practice homage to the Great Pumpkin. We leave that to Linus.

Along with a Barbie Camper and Easy Bake Oven, our daughter wants her two front teeth for Christmas! I am sure Santa can supply a couple of those gift wrapped, but not the teeth part.

Don't you just love the holidays!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Advent is here!

Advent rocks! Love it!

Woo hoo!

Got my Advent wreath re-stocked with candles.

Have my Advent calendar hanging in the kitchen.

Two new fresh Advent devotionals await the family at the dinner table.

And a basket full of Christmas/Advent/Winter children's books are gift wrapped and ready for our daughter to unwrap a book a day until Christmas Eve (helps with the eagerness of the gift giving/receiving).

Advent- bring it because I am ready!

Post-Turkey Let Down

After two days worth of feasting, I am coming off my Thanksgiving-turkey and all the fixin's high. Crash and collapse. My kiddo wanted me to play a game with her... halfway through I was so exhausted I fell asleep before my turn. How sad is that?

I have decided though that Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays especially because of the food, family, football, holiday parades, and the practice of gratitude. I do not view this holiday as just a precursor to the Advent-Christmas season like the retailers would have me believe. No, for me Thanksgiving stands alone as one of my favs.

Now all the turkey has been eaten and only the skinny pieces of pie are left on the kitchen counter top. Until next year Thanksgiving... see you soon!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Reading again...

While I have not been busy blogging, I have been reading (although slower than my summer pace). Here are the latest. greatest or not so greatest reads...

  • Strangers and Neighbors: What I Have Learned about Christianity by Living among Orthodox Jews by Marai Poggi Johnson
  • Bonhoeffer: Worldly Preaching (His Finkenwalde Lectures on Homiletics) translated by Clyde E. Fant
  • The Leadership Challenge, the Fourth Edition by James M. Kouzes and Barry Z. Posner
  • The American Saint: Francis Asbury and the Methodists by John Wigger
  • Exodus (for our DISCIPLE 2 Bible Study)

As you can see I am not engaged in fiction reading at the moment... other than the picture books and learning to read books our daughter brings home from the library.

For Advent I will be working through two devotionals, reading a Christmas book a day with our daughter, and finishing two of the books from above (Leadership Challenge and American Saint are not quite finished).

What are you reading?

Monday, November 22, 2010

Thankful Things

Here they are in no particular order; my Thanksgiving Thankful Things. I am thankful...
  • that I have a mind and can use it. Although my stubbornness gets in the way and it becomes harder to learn new technologies. I still have a mind, can think, reason, and remember how to be reasonable!
  • most of my body still works properly (despite five days of the flu to tell me otherwise).
  • that chocolate was invented and has the medicinal properties to heal all that ails me.
  • I do not have to spend all day gathering dirty water for my family, but that I can support a group of people to build a well and thus change daily life for someone I have never met.
  • my daughter goes to a school where her teachers love her enough to tell her about Jesus and love her enough to grow her character.
  • that I am married to a man with enough grit to face new challenges with determination and confidence.
  • I am debt free (with exception of the house) and owe nothing to anyone, but love.
  • that music of all kinds continues to weave it's way into my life and gives me great joy!
  • for my goddaughter's giggles.
  • for the privilege to be pastor to someone in their darkest hour and carry them to Jesus for His Loving Healing Grace.
Blessed Thanksgiving to you!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Loss for Words

Over the past three weeks I've been at a loss for words. I know you're thinking, "Michelle not having something to say! Ha! That's like a politician coming through on a promise. It just doesn't happen."

Well, it has happened- to me at least. At first I didn't even notice. I just kept on moving; going about my business as usual. Then, when I peaked at my blog the infrequency of my entries startled me. My personal journal is also empty.

Is there something wrong? Am I dried up for words? I don't think writer's block is impeding me nor have I lost my desire to write.

I just don't want to.

Kinda like Mary pondered things internally in her heart after her visit by the Angel Gabriel; I just have this need to ponder, brew, stew, and mull for awhile.

I'll let you know when the things change.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Mutant

No one needs to be surprised. We confirmed last week that our dog, Duke, is indeed the mutant that we supposed he was all along.

All paws, thicker than a Hummer, and stubborn as a mule- we now have biologically supportive data (blood tests) that confirm he is indeed "a brick shy of a full load".

After a second seizure our vet ran blood work analysis on Dukie... liver fine; thyroid fine; and thus neurological functioning- is not fine.

I knew we picked the mutant of the litter. Just didn't know it went into his brain.

And of course, the breeder has never had a dog like this one. No history of seizures or disorders of this kind... Duke is the first in his class, alright.

Sigh.

Anyone want a used dog?

For cheap?

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Behind for November

Gosh- where in the world have I been?

Not blogging that is for sure. Been on Facebook, checked my email, but not here.

Last week as the first full week in November my schedule was consumed with piano lessons, voting, elections, teaching classes, hosting candle parties, continuing education seminars, and all sorts of odd little items.

Have no idea where the time went, but here is a brief recap:
  • said a, "Blessed All Saints Day", to those who honored their loved ones in eternity!
  • voted in the election
  • learned what we're doing well in regards to children's ministry and also where are deficiencies are
  • taught way too many classes last week to count
  • organized some terrific Ministers of Visitation and did some 2011 planning at the same time
  • hosted a fun party for some terrific girl friends
  • wished that the dishwasher repair would have failed so I can get a new dishwasher
  • missed the reunion of the Sophia Sisters- blessings to you wonderful ladies
  • tried to catch up on my reading
I'll try to think of more provocative material to write about this week. Until then- peace to you and to yours!


Sunday, October 31, 2010

Halloween Happy

With her fish clutching a pink plastic scepter our princess ballerina pumped that fist in the air while chanting, "Candy, candy, candy!" This was her cheer as she skittered back and forth across our empty streets getting candy from our neighbors.

The night before we'd carved our pumpkins. Her fingers stirred the pumpkin goop for twenty minutes before she'd finally finish. She graduated to carving this year. No band aids nor stitches were needed, a Halloween miracle.

Our favorite part of the festivity came after we opened and sample all of the candy. Snuggled up on the couch we watched It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown! Even though my husband and I have watched the movie every year for years... we still laugh at every punchline like we're never seen the movie.

It was a great Halloween. Hope yours was happy.

Tomorrow is All Saints Day!

Friday, October 29, 2010

Pumpkin'ing

Most of us grown ups remember fondly our first car. Mine was no exception.

Who could forget a bright orange Ford Mustang with an engine that leaked oil and a hatch back roof with grimy black fabric seats?

Every first car needs a name. Mine was no exception.

I called her Pumpkin.

When I loaded up my fellow band geeks for a run to the local Hardee's for some Cokes and cinnamon raisin biscuits, we'd refer to our activity by creating a verb out of a proper noun. We'd be pumpkin'ing.

Ah- she was a sweet car. Hung some of the Raisins (used in Hardee's commericals in the late 1980's) from my reveiw mirror becase we ate so many cinnamon raisin biscuits.

Sadly, one autumn day she left us. Not to be carved into a scary faces or smashed on someone's lawn like more traditional and organic pumpkins, but Pumpkin was no more because her little engine couldn't function anymore.

My next car was bright red. Gave her a name too; Tomato.

But it was never the same because a tomato is a fruit that thinks it's a vegetable. Obviously, vegetables make better names for cars.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

the Faithful's Failed Finances

What if clergy candidates had to have a credit check before entering into ministry? Or submit a personal family budget as well as show how to balance a non-profit budget?

Last week I actually rummaged around our Indiana Area UM website for information about our Rejuvenate program. Classes, grants, and testimonies piqued my interest. My rummaging brought to my mind even more questions about our church's financial stewardship at all levels- local, state and international.

The anonymous testimony by one Indiana area clergy colleagues about filing for bankruptcy multiple times tugged hard at my heart. Last fall my husband and I gave our testimony about our credit card, car and school debt. All of which is now paid off and we are debt free with only the mortgage left. (You can find that testimony on this blog during November 2009. By the way we paid off our debt WHILE tithing 10% of our gross income. Don't tell me it cannot be done.)

So, I know personally how easy it is to get into a bind and stay there. And how easy it is to overlook your giving to God/God's church in the name of your sloppy personal finances.

Several years ago I attended a training seminar for clergy and lay leaders on Capital Fund campaigns. I was stunned when our seminar leader gave statistics of how few Protestant clergy (my colleagues) give financially to their churches. The number of clergy who give a tithe of income is even less.

What?! Clergy not giving!? Preachers, teachers, pastors not contributing to the over all work of God through the church?! Sounds ridiculous- but it sadly seems to be the case because now we're all in debt up to our clerical collars.

Clergy are the leaders of the church now and in the future. Scripture reminds us that a higher standard is set for our teaching, model, and example than for others within the Body of Christ. Moreover, we are the vision casters, the resident theologians, and the spiritual directors within the congregation.

No wonder the church is failing to make an effective and powerful impact in the world when our leaders are failing to lead, by example! Makes me mad and I find that I am sad as well.

I fuss a lot about the spending that is taking place in our national government and how I want to fire congress. But I must be honest and consider not what's "out there", but what's close to home. And that is the Church and my colleagues of whom I care about.

When I was in seminary at Duke one of my second-career friends commented that he didn't understand why a course in finance, leadership and business was not required of clergy before ordination. I didn't get what he was addressing.

Sadly, now I do.

Random...

Severe weather this morning interupted everyone's normal October Tuesday morning. And the interuption reminded me what a odd little collection of insights and musings I have collected these past ten days. Here are a few:


  • learned from a 4 year old that "sometimes frogs pee on your hands" during a Children's sermon I attempted to give.
  • received roses, best love letter (ever!) and a dinner date from my spouse for our 10th anniversary.
  • helped my daughter with her glitter'd surprise birthday card for Daddy ...without attaching glitter to the kitchen counter tops!
  • listened to the Senate debate last night on television and is even more puzzled over how I will vote next Tuesday.
  • was blessed by a terrific God-conversation with my sister in law who stated with tears and joy in her voice, "I am so falling in love with God all over again!" aw- isn't that the best?!
  • babies in the Noland family like to arrive during severe weather. Welcome to the world, Aubrey! (today is your birthday!)
  • no, I am not going to develop a six-pack like Todd's before my 40th birthday next spring and wear a red string bikini and put photos on Facebook. The thought is tempting...but, gosh that is a LOT of work.
  • read a terrific memoir about a Catholic family living in an Orthodox Jewish neighborhood...what a hoot!
  • was blessed with a nap during the NFL games on Sunday afternoon after preaching a sermon that wore me out more than I thought it would.

Wonder what will be in my world these next few days?!

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Shabbot

Last Friday night as the sun set to the west... our rag tag group of Gentiles gathered in the long shadows on parking lot to wait. We were waiting to worship. It seems only Gentiles come to worship early at synagogues in Carmel, Indiana. Actually our DISCIPLE Bible class (with their families) were waiting on someone with a key to unlock the doors.

Yes, our Bible class believes in field trips in addition to our curriculum!

I overheard a woman on her cell phone say, rather tartly, "Well, get your rabbinical a** here!" Such a liturgical statement was foreign to my worship experience, but it seemed to do the trick because moments later our Messiah (with the key) arrived!

Greetings, hand shakes and welcomes were given and received while our group doubled the minyan that finally arrived. My kindergartener insisted on sitting in the front row where she would not miss anything. Thus casually and delightfully we began our 90 minute sojourn into all things Hebrew, minor, and foreign.

With teaching commentary sprinkled throughout the service we found our way through the prayer book (backwards) as three teens struggled to lead the service. They chanted the four Psalms and the one hymn from the middle century by an unnamed Jewish mystic. (Who knew there was such a thing as a Jewish mystic? What do you know?!)

We honored the faithfulness of God, welcomed the Bride (aka the Shabbot) as we stood in Her honor, recognized the dead and remembered the grieving (those who are in shiva). All while my kid squirmed in her sqeaky seat counting the Stars of David scattered throughout the room. No one was more glad about 'refreshments' in the social hall than my kiddo!

The Rabbi was very gracious with his hospitality for our non-Hebrew crew. After worship he opened the ark and showed us two of the synagogue's Torah scrolls. (One was over 300 years old!) We learned alot about the work of scribes and the Hebrew language. But also we talked of the Jewish definition of death, what does it mean to work on a Sabboth, and how a 'blessing' is different between Jews and Christians.

My favorite moment though has to be when the Rabbi welcomed us to worship by stating in his quirky, yet loving way, "I am so glad you are here. We need to do this more often- visit each other in worship. I have more in common with a practicing Christian than I do a secular Jew."

He is right because I can say the same. I have more in common with practicing Jews than I do with secular Christians.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Halloween's a Comin'

Got your creepy face on? Halloween's a comin'...

My experience at our local retail stores tells me that this holiday has become quite a moneymaker for our economy: candy, costumes, party favors etc. The list goes on. And supposedly we need it all in order to be scared and have a sugar induced high!

My daughter has been talking about her costume for weeks, but if previous experience is any indication she will change her mind the day of Halloween (causing her mother to have a panic fit!)

Now to buy the candy, put up the decorations, gather the costume and prepare for the final marker that autumn has arrived... All Hallow's Eve!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

God and Fantasy Football

With Sunday Night Football on the tube and my hubby screaming about his Fantasy Football league "my mind hatched an idea!" ( a phrase my daughter uses all the time.)

Wonder what God's Fantasy Football team would look like?

I know mine... it would include all my favs from the Pittsburgh Steelers like Lynn Swan, Terry Bradshaw, Mike Webster, Rocky Blair, John Stallworth, Franco Harris, LC Greenwood, Jack Lambert, Mel Blanc, Jack Ham, and who could forget... Mean Joe Greene.

Gosh- all this nostalgia has inspired me to dig through the boxes in the attic for all my NFL trading cards. Probably some money in those now. ha ha!

Here is my best guess of the Lord's 'fantasy team'...
  • Quarterback- Peyton Manning or Jesus
  • Wide Receivers- Jerry Rice and Lynn Swann or Isaiah and Jeremiah
  • Tight End- John Mackey or Moses
  • Running Backs- Emmitt Smith and Franco Harris or Apostle Paul and Apostle Peter
  • Kicker- Morton Anderson or the Holy Spirit
  • Defense- Steel Curtain (Steelers) or the Original Disciples
Whew- that would be one unstoppable team!

Friday, October 8, 2010

To Keep, Not to Keep

Autumn delights us with color and the opportunity to practice the art of letting go. Letting go, shedding, or freeing ourselves offers us the chance to grow more deeply in grace and truth. If the trees can shed their gorgeous leaves - then so can we shed ourselves of the things that are no longer necessary.

Here are some things I want our United Methodist denomination to let go of as the Body of Christ... as well as things I want us to keep.

Let go of ...guaranteed appointments for UM clergy; honor the clergy leaders who show growth rates in the number of Professions of Faith within their flocks.

Let go of ...jurisdictional conference in the UMC; keep the election of bishops and move it into the last few days of General Conference.

Let go of ...three different sets of financial and statistical number gathering (i.e. fall charge conferences, January Check Days, and April audits); keep one annual report due at the end of the calendar year.

Let go of ...clustering within the Indiana Conference of UMC; keep opportunities for cooperative ministry to grow where they do so naturally, creatively (i.e. stop trying to manage them).

Let go of ...all the hoopla (arduous steps) and huge structure of the Board of Ordained Ministry process for ministerial candidates; keep mentors, quality educational, mental health & family standards for future/current leaders within the church.

For our local congregation, Calvary United Methodist Church, here in suburba Indiana...

Let go of ...idea that someone else will fix it, do it, take care of it, and/or give financially for ministry to happen; keep and embrace personal responsbility for all to exhibit leadership in ministry (lay, staff, clergy alike).

Let go of ...our busyness, distractions, and life-clutter; keep inner stillness in order to listen more deeply to one another and grow our relationships with God, self and others.

Let go of ...our hang ups, nervousness, uncomfortability or whatever it is that keeps us from cracking open a Bible to learn or attending a small group in order to find out more about God and our Christian faith; keep small groups of all kinds open and operational as little communities of hospitality, wholeness, and great learning!

What do you want to let go of?

What do you want to keep?

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Ready, Set, Fall!

I drove my silver Honda across 56th street from Indianapolis towards Brownsburg this morning and witnessed a miracle. (I decided immediately that God made it for me personally.)

For those of you familiar with this route you know what I may be talking about. Driving across the bridge over Eagle Creek Reservoir captivates the eye with water, trees, and natural (although made-created reservoir) beauty. Well, today God painted it just for lil' ol' me!

Yellow, orange, red, and pine green appreared along the shore lines with a bright blue sky dotted with white fluffy clouds! Mmmm... good!

Last Saturday our family attempted a trip to Brown County to witness fall in season... but got wind, rain, and no colors... This weekend will be a different story but we won't be there. sigh. Maybe you can be there.

Or be where you are admiring what miracle God has painted for you!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Prayers.... going into the world!

What a fabulous, family friendly Pet Blessing on Saturday! What a wonderful World Communion Worship on Sunday! Thanks everyone who participated and made a difference!

15 dogs and one chicken were blessed on Saturday evening.

180 prayer beads were taken home on Sunday after worship. That means over 180 folks will be receiving their token (i.e. prayer bead) as a reminder that they have been prayed for and with... and better yet over 180 people are praying this week! Woo hoo!

Don't forget Calvary family- we're praying through the letter "D" in our church directory this week!

Blessings upon blessings to you as you pray for and with one another!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Prayer Treasure

During this weekend in which we recognize World Communion Sunday and bless our pets on Saturday (aren't we a busy church?!), we are faced with another prayer-filled challenge. Monday October 4, 2010 is the Day of Prayer for the Peace of Jerusalem. See more information at www.daytopray.com

The Day of Prayer for the Peace of Jerusalem calls for sustained, fervent, informed and global intercession for the plans and purposes of God for Jerusalem and all her people; This world wide grassroots prayer initiative coincides with the season of Yom Kippur, recognizing the Jewish roots of the Christian faith. It has been instituted with the endorsement of Christian leaders of all denominations and differing politics from around the world.

These Christian leaders recognize that Scripture consistently and repeatedly calls us to pray for the peace of Jerusalem and the current tragedy, bloodshed, and loss of life in both sides of this current conflict warrant at least one day of unified intercession from the worldwide Christ for this strategic spiritual location. Over 72 nations participated in representing tens of millions of Christians in united prayer during it's first international observance, and each year, the number grows.

You will be invited this weekend to bend your knees, bow your heads, and humble your heart in prayer for our world community! And for those of you special enough to attend worship on Sunday- you'll be given a gift of prayer to extend to someone else... please come and be a Calvary people of prayer!

Prayers of the Enrichment Kiddos

"What is prayer?" I asked our kindergarten enrichment students.

"Talking to God and Jesus," they all affirmed.

"But what about listening? Do you think God wants you to listen to God?"

Hmm... they needed to ponder that one.

So after a long discussion with many props and pictures to add our conversation, I challenged the wiggly group of students to practice listening to God.

They all got in their favorite prayer posture (which was laying down on the rug in their classroom). And we had silence.

Who says children cannot create and hold silence? Who says that children do not crave or need silence? Who says that children are unable or unwilling to ponder the mysteries of quiet?

Not these nine students. They were quiet without giggles, without touching for some l-o-n-g moments.

What they reported afterwards was amazing- they heard God.

Now, I wish for all their parents, grandparents, siblings and all the people of the world to do the same...to stop the rush-rush, hush themselves, be quiet and listen.

My hunch is if we all did that- we would be different and so would our world.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Fish Fryin'

Come on folks!

Stop by... starting tomorrow Thursday September 23, Friday September 24, and Saturday September 25 we're selling FISH, TENDERLOINS, SHRIMP all fried to crispy perfection along with home baked pies and brownies!

It's about fish, but it's not.

For our church we're trying to see how we can work well together. How we come together in a effort to raise monies for our ministry as well as help Barnes UMC with their urban youth ministry- will be tested this weekend.

Bring your appettite. Drive through the Drive thru but, come and eat!

Retreat aftermath...

Usually when the working mom comes back from a weekend away where she has worked 14 hour days and been too busy to get her eyeliner on straight, she knows what waits her at home.

Stuff like the following usually happens: there are piles of laundry, dirty dishes lined up along the sink, unfed & unbathed kid and pet, pizza and cereal boxes stacked on the full trash can along with dirt and grime in bathrooms and along floors throughout the house.

Not so for me this year. Nope.

The kitchen sparkled and glistened. The house hummed with the noise of a busy washing machine and dishwasher. The child and pet were clean and fed (nothing but hot dogs, but they were fed). The beds were made with clean freshly smelling linens!

I thought I was in the wrong house, but then my husband (aka the Prince and Mr. Mom) walked into a greet me with a big hug and kiss!

"Wow", I said, "Thank you. This is marvelous! Why has this never happend before when I've left for a weekend retreat?"

As he swooped me into his arms and tucked me into my bed (for I was tired, very tired) he said, "Because I've never been home before while you were gone."

Sweet dreams! :)

(Best homecoming ever!)

Friday, September 17, 2010

Retreating, We Go!

After fifteen years or so of retreat leadership, you'd think I wouldn't get nervous anymore? Ha! Still do and still am as I prepare to leave this afternoon for a wonderful retreat center in Tipton, Indiana.

Maybe the nerves are more of the adreline rush of preparation and excitement. Or maybe the butterflies in my stomach are just nerves because there is much to oversee and help facilitate especially with a larger group like thirty seven women, with a third of them as new participants.

In either case now it the time to launch this experience! Trusting that the Spirit has been with us in preparations, will meet us as we go, and will aid us in our worship and understanding of our lives yoked with God. I am confident in all of the leaders, musicians, presenters, small group table leaders, dancers, and dramatists. That confidence makes all the other jobs of leading easier and more joyful!

Now, I gotta go fill my husband's SUV with stuff! See you after Sunday!

Pooch Update

In the wee hours of the morning on the Labor Day just past (2:30am to be precise), our three year old yellow labrador retriever awoke my husband and I with a thud and a crash.

We rushed into the kitchen where all the noise came from to find him running into the kitchen cabinets and trying to get outside. Before we could open the door our 93 pound pup fell to the floor on his side and began to convulse. I have seen human beings had seizures, but I have never witnessed such a large domestic animal be in such physical trama.

Duke pup's grand mal seizure lasted less than 30 seconds, but was horribly long for me. He lost bladder control, bowel control and his anal glands released... my linenolum was covered in all sorts of bodily fluids. (We later found his vomit in another corner of the kitchen.)

As soon as it began it was done and then my dog went into a primal state of aggression. He growled at us... and stumbled & backed himself into a corner of the kitchen were he could observe anyone coming toward him.

Slowly his pupils came back to normal... and soon enough as we spoke quietly (while cleaning up the mess) he became calm and clear headed again. Moments later he wanted a treat from our hand...was thirsty for a drink and was eager for a middle-of-the-night bath.

Eric and I then spent the rest of the night or what was left of it trying to make sense of what happened, calm down, and watch him carefully for signs of another seizure.

Our labor and effort that night gave me a new appreciation for how we work on behalf of all those we love... including our pets and domestic animals. Needless to say, the remainder of the
labor day was spent resting from our labor of love.

The things we do for our dogs...

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Exhaustion

At our weekly staffing meeting we had all the usual suspects. The baker. The birthday gal. The jokester. You know the usual folks including the new guy, Mike. But there was an addition to our table discussion on Wednesday morning.

In between the dark circles, yawns, sighs, and slap-happy jokes the presence of Fatigue became known. Usually Fatigue doesn't appear at our staffing meetings until the 2nd week of Advent or the sixth week of Lent. Every now and then he arrives when I am finishing up the Confirmation class with Andrew.

For some reason or another he showed up this week. Everyone around the table looked and talked about being wiped out, tired, exhausted and way to busy both in their ministry and in their personal lives.

Made me wish for summer break.

sigh.

This isn't good, I thought. We haven't even gotten to the Women's Retreat or the Fish Fry or even Charge Conference...and the staff are propping up their heads on their hands.

Do you think if we spike our Holy Communion juice with some Red Bull we can make it until Fall Break?

Wanted: Lost Stuff

Getting ready for this week's sermon I wrote this for our church's Mid Week Blog:

Some of us want to lose weight while the rest of us just lose our car keys. Lost stuff happens. It happens often.

Our culture seems preoccupied with ‘lost’ things. Television dramas and comedies have been made about lost folks like Gilligan’s Island, Lost, and Land of the Lost. Wonder why we’re fascinated about being lost? When I got lost as a kid I was scared out of my wits!

Sunday in worship we will be sharing a bit more about how lost stuff matters to God–well, maybe your car keys are not on the same priority list as losing your mind–but nonetheless God seems interested, especially from the 15th chapter of Luke, in lost stuff.

Come and join us for worship as we discover we’re found by God’s great love!


Thursday, September 2, 2010

Difference a Year Makes


A year ago the lady on the left in the floral dress was diagnosed with a re-occurrence of her breast cancer. The situation of her health was grave and we were not sure what days or weeks would bring. God's healing touch, her tenacity for life, and several innovative doctors later- we are at a different place this year.

One of the inner promises I made to myself a year ago was to take time, create space, and opportunity for memory-making. I wanted to do something that would be special and include several generations of my daughter's extended family. The photo above is now evidence of a very special Knight ladies luncheon and tea at the LS Ayers Tea Room at the Indiana State Museum in Indianapolis.

The Knight ladies had tea with hats, gloves, and all the frills of girlie-girls! Heads snapped our way. Smiles and nods touched us.

My gratitude looms larger than the brim of my hat that we had the opportunity to make this memory... what a hard learned lesson to make every moment count!

Signs of September

You know you're in September when...
  • your hubby saves gas money by refusing to mow the lawn because it's brown and crunchy like the chicken strips at Chick fil A.
  • your kid starts her count down until her birthday.
  • bright yellow Fish Fry signs for our church's annual fundraiser start popping up on lawns all over Hendricks County.
  • football takes over the TV remote.
  • summer flowers are pulled up and you cannot wait to plant the green mums with the tiny buds.
  • charge conference forms appear in your email inbox from the District Office.
  • people in the pew re-appear after taking the summer 'off' from church because of their travel, sports, and recreation hobbies.
  • the garden wanes in captivating the interest of anyone in the house.
  • my To Do list for the summer still has not crossed off the goal of exercise and weight loss.
How do you know September is here?

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Things Overheard on the Way to School

My daughter's vocabulary (from reading all her summer books) and her imagination never cease to make me laugh... here is a sample of what I overheard on the way to kindergarten today:

"Why do we have saliva?"

"What are seeds made of?"

"The (Mars) rover fell upside down because it had the hiccups!"

"We don't pee broccoli!"

"Why are dinosaurs extinct?"

"We don't pee lettuce either."

Yes, we have some really strange travel conversations... (sigh) wonder what she'll ask about tomorrow morning. You are welcome to car pool with us, if you're up to it!

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Moon Shadow

Just me and my moon shadow tonight... well, and a dozen or so other brave souls. My labyrinth buddy, Shirley, is hosting another Full Moon Labyrinth Walk! Woo hoo! Have bug spray and will be there!

Reminds me of Girls Scouts in grade school when I was manipulated by peer pressure to go on a 'snipe hunt'! But this time we're not in search of a nonexistent critter... just walking and meditating to deepen our soul work! :)

Cannot wait... I've even got a brand new journal to crack open after my walk! Hope the clouds part so the moon and I can walk together!

See you on the path!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Garden- 2010

Our latest garden update needs to include the weird fact that yes, the strawberries have bloomed again for the 3rd time this year. Is this normal, we wonder? Does this happen to other people? And why, even though we've had all these blooms, have the strawberries themselves turned rotten right away?

Our tomatoes continue to produce in great abundance. We've shared sacks full with everyone we meet.

The sunflowers are drooping now (and my sinus' are grateful). So, we're about at the end of our season. The carrots (who grew back their stems) remain to be investigated. All things considered it was a great little garden this year. The only plan for next season is to try some herbs in a little box on the deck.

My kid proudly refers to herself as a farmer! :) And when she shows off her garden Diana recounts very clearly and specifically how little the plants were when she planted them etc. Her enjoyment of all things growing- never ceases to tickle my fancy.

Strippers

Sorry to disappoint some of my readers, but this blog isn't what it may seem.

Last week we hired a man to strip our deck of it's old, faded stain and condition it for a new stain color before we host our daughter's birthday party.

For three hours this poor man slaved over our deck section by section. Using both a powerful chemical and a strong power washer a fine layer of wood was slowly and carefully stripped off the deck.

Watching him work from my kitchen window I appreciated his patience for such monotonous and tedious work. The powerful spray of water and chemical splashed up and over all our of our surrounding landscape leaving a brownish residue.

The experience made me think of our spiritual transformation from sinner into saint. At times we are blasted hard with the force of God working in and through our lives to clean us up. The process can hurt a bit.

Other times additional toxic situations peel away our illusions of self, control, and strength leaving us raw and vulnerable to the elements until we are re-marked or stained with the character traits of godly living. Thus, soul transformation mimics my deck's outer transformation.

Wouldn't it be neat and tidy to have 'before and after' of ourselves as God works through us and within us like the stripper took digital photos of my deck? But then again, sometimes the work God does lies hidden and dormant until a situation challenges us to reveal just how God has been moving within us.

Thanks be to God there is more than one way to witness how we've grown!


Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Missing Summer Already

Officially the seasons do not change until later in September, but already the transition is in the air. Schools have re-started. Fall decor and even Halloween costumes are on sale. Pre-season NFL games began last weekend. Autumn has arrived.

Bye, bye summer.

Long days. Hot nights. Humid air. Allergies. Summer gardens. Chalk art. Bike rides. Swim parties. Naps under the ceiling fan. Hours at the library pouring over books.

These are now enjoyments of the recent past.

Hello cooler weather. Crisp evenings. Football and marching band seasons. Pumpkin carving and trick or treating. And of course, our fall fish fry!

Sigh.

See you next year summer! Bye for now...

K-garten is Starting!

Glue sticks, check.

Fat washable markers, check.

Safety scissors, check.

Elmer's Glue, check.

Backpack, check.

Lunch box, check.

Kiddo with missing teeth and eager heart, check.

Ready to answer the question you've asked all summer?, '"Who will be my reading teacher?"'

We're ready. Kindergarten, here we come! Woo hoo!

(But Momma's having a tough time with this life-transition...tears, anxiety, and general nervousness. Sigh. I am sure I'll be make it through just I'll muddle through junior high, high school, college etc.)

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

In Case the Bishop Wants to Know...

In case the Bishop wants to know ... what I've been reading for continuing education, this blog will answer all of his questions or perhaps raise more.

Our local library finishes their Summer Reading program this week and I just posted my final log entry. Over 2047 pages of book were read by me this summer. Felt a bit like seminary for a while there. This does not include the 192 books my daughter and I have enjoyed the past few weeks for her part of the summer reading program.

Some reading was better than others. One author and I held an argument. From another I learned how people in Africa are praying for their healing and my hope. And from one fictional author I learned all about forsenic science and murder - (how that applies to local church ministry, we'll have to see...)!

Here is my list:

  • Detox for the Overly Religious by David Putman
  • If the Church Were Christian: Rediscovering the Values of Jesus by Phillip Gulley
  • A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller
  • Pslams for Today by Beth LaNeel Tanner
  • Like Breath and Water by Ciona Rouse
  • Inner Healing for Broken Vessels by Linda Hollies
  • Do What You Have the Power to Do by Helen Pearson
  • Winding Path by Eve Hogan
  • Death Du Jour by Kathy Reichs
  • Deja Dead by Kathy Reichs

Wonder what my reading this fall will be like? Or if, I'll have time to read!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

End of Summer Blahs

What do you do when you have the blahs?

Inquistive people may try to search out the source of their 'blah-ness'. Free-loving types may consider their blah-ness an invitation to relax and take-it-easy. Others of us (those alpha, leader, go-getter types) may simply not know what to do with blah-ness and seek a diagnosis and remedy. My blah-ness is leading me in a different direction.

The petunias along my back deck are looking tired and blah. Even though their purple and pink color remains brilliant and bright their foilage and plant stems seem to mirror what it is that I am experiencing. Fatigue from the heat and humidity of summer. Slowness in growth because they've already grown so much they're reached their current potential. (Not that I am finished growing, but I may have maxed out of my current self-growth cycle.)

Lately, I have felt nudged to be still. This call I have to be quiet within may be the best response to life around and within me. The best response to my blah-ness...

Shh...let's be quiet together and celebrate how God's grown in us and God's love has grown through us this past/current season. Maybe while we're quiet; we can be cool too!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Missions Mania

Wow- what an awesome weekend at church! Two guest missionaries preached (Guatemala and Congo), two mission groups gave their testimonies (Russia and Mountain Top), a visiting group of UM youth from Illinois were on their way back from Red Bird Missions worshiped with us, and we collected over 129 back-to-school items for local community children in need! Whew!

I am pumped! I am excited! Hearing missionaries speak is like a shot of spiritual adrenaline for me. My mind and heart start racing at the ideas and the opportunities to make a positive impact in someone's life.

Missions can be contagious. My five year old discovered that. She heard a mission group share about orphans in Russia and then heard a preacher talk about hungry kids who are without a school in Guatemala. A question mark was formed on her forehead.

Our car ride home was filled with inquiry, "Momma, what is an orphan? Will I be one?" "Why are those babies hungry?" "Where are their mommies? Don't their Daddies work for dollars so they have stuff?" "Why?" "Why?"

Kids want to know the hard stuff and I'd rather she learn about these things in church than anywhere else.

To show the impact of our worship service ... later during dinner she was talking about all the dollars she had saved in order to shop for things. She sighed and said, "I have too much money!" (She won't say that when she's a teen!) I told her she could share it and give it. Reminding her of the children we talked about during worship that needed help. Her Daddy then offered- "For every dollar you give Mommy and I will match for $2.00."

Bright smile beamed on her face, "Okay!"

I just love generosity... it is contagious!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Final Countdown to Fall...

You know summer is winding up when crayons, paper, and backpacks appear in all the local stores. Sigh. There is still more fun to be had like ... pools to swim in, garden veggies to grow, hammock naps to enjoy, and BB Q's to eat!

So much to do and so little time... Good news is we've already made our annual 14 loaves of chocolate zuccihini bread. Bad news is we're still behind in our summer reading program. About 35 books to go for my kiddo and over 700 pages left for me to read.

There is obviously more summer to enjoy! But while we do that there is the gentle approach of autumn busyness... for example, believe it or not we'll be planning Advent and Confirmation 2011 next week in our staff retreat. Ugh.

Better go and ride my bike... see yah!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Special Bible

I know something must be up because rarely does my Spiritual Director give me homework. You can imagine my surprise last week when she handed me material as I left her new office!!

My quest is to explore the upcoming exhibit of the Saint John's Bible her monastery is hosting during the month of August. Visio divinia, lectures, workshops and tours are all a part of this fascinating event.

Here is the website were you can learn more about this http://www.saintjohnsbible.org/ hand calligraphy and illuminated manuscript of the NRSV Bible. It is gorgeous! First one done this way since the invention of the printing press. Here is more information on the exhibit
http://www.benedictinn.org/benedictinn.org/The_Saint_Johns_Bible_Exhibit.html

I am intrigued by this group of monks who are attempting to remind all believers that our Scripture is alive and full of life. So, I hope you may join me in my quest to be a student of the word as it is presented in such an amazing manner!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Prayer Creed

"if God's language is silence, then the language of God's people is praise."

I believe in prayer.
Because I believe that the Someone who is listening loves me more than anything.
And wants to hear me talk and is thrilled when I shut up long enough to listen.

I believe that prayer isn't always polite, neat and tidy.
Life isn't tidy.

Sometimes or most often, my best prayers are loud, long, angry, whiny and raw.

I trust that God wants and in facts demands my honesty in prayer.

There is nothing no ugliness, no sin, and no pain that can stop me from praying.
God has heard me before vent my anger towards Godself and not struck me down.

God loves me enough to like my open mind and chatty, potty mouth.

Prayer deepens our rapport with one another... even when I don't hear anything back or when I have to wait for an answer.... the act of praying usually brings me back into focus if the answer to prayer does not.

And that's what I believe about prayer.

What do you believe?




Wednesday, July 14, 2010

The Mentor Summer

Because we're past the half way mark of summer (i.e. July 4th) and sliding down into fall activities and the start of school, I've come to the awareness that my summer has two main themes ... 1) transition for our family around my husband's job change, and 2) mentoring.

For some reason unbeknown'st to me I've been asked to serve as a Candidacy Mentor for three different women who are entering ordained ministry in our denomination. Three. (My buddy down the office hallway is mentoring, get this, four!)

Why so many and all at once? I don't know. Are there not enough mentors around the state of Indiana or am I decent at this sort of thing? It could mean I cannot say 'no' very well?!

Whatever the reason, three very different, very smart, and very dynamic women (all attending different seminaries) share God's call upon their lives with me.

I like things that come in threes. Like the Trinity, good sci-fi films (i.e. Star Wars has a pair of trilogies) and triple chocolate layers on cake. My family has three people in it. School House Rock sings a song entitled, Three is a Magic Number! Yes, it is. Yes, it is.

My time is being spent this summer deep in conversations with these ladies. I hope to aid God's grooming and growth in these future leaders, preachers, teachers, justice workers, pastoral care givers, prophets, and shepherds.

Please help me pray for these women. Jesus told us that the harvest is huge and the laborers are few. Yet here are three ready to labor for Him.

Jesus' church needs all the best help we can get...may these women discover the best in themselves as they follow God's direction for their lives.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Reading....

Half way there! We are halfway to our goal to beat last year's reading record of 180 books. My kiddo and I are signed up for the Bookworm Summer Reading program at our local library. But we have less time to get it finished...so, read, read, read....is how this week will go. Must read more picture books. More Seuss. More Scooby-Doo.

This summer I signed myself up to read as well. Last year my efforts were pitiful. (no use telling you what I got read...terrible.) But this summer I have already beat my page number goal... over 800 pages done. A good murder mystery put me over the edge thus far. :)

There is a stack of books by my bed, at my desk, and in my office ready and willing.

So, if you need me you won't be able to find me... we'll be reading. see you in the stacks.

Playdates and Parks!

My husband enjoys playing the game "If I had unlimited funds- here is what I would do...". Well, after enjoying a beautiful day at a city park, Deming Park in Terre Haute, Indiana, I know what I would do with the money.

First, we need lots of land with plenty of big trees to offer shade and a place to climb. Then, we need water and not just a simple water feature but a creek, lake or small pond. (Swimming pool will be added later.)

The playground equipment is essential component to an awesome playground. A great one for the toddlers too. All of it must be handicapped accessible, with climbing things, slides, forts, and lots of swings.

Next to the playground you need a frisbee golf course, ice cream stand, train rides for the kiddies, and a long winding bike trail. ahh.... doesn't that sounds wonderful?!

Nothing beats a summer day at a park!

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Going to the Show!

Jesus Christ Superstar opens this weekend at our church! We've got our tickets, how about you?

During one of my high school summers I first saw an outdoor production of this musical and fell in love with it. And can sing most of the song lyrics as a result... Nothing better than a rock opera! (Some great guitar lics and bass lines too!)

It is a dark, musical drama at its best with a mix of anguish and angst. Perfect for teenagers to portray! And I am just saying, we've got the best set of students anywhere... right here!

Our sanctuary has completely been taken over with lights, set, huge pit for the band and all the props and costumes etc. Somewhere in the back wings you'll find the altar, candles, pulpit and baptismal font. They aren't removed forever- just out of the way for the singing, acting and dancing.

One thing you cannot remove from our sanctuary is a HUGE cross which is suspended (normally over the altar), but now casts it's shadow over the entire set. Actually our cross will make a shadow on the cast and crew as they share their offering of musical and theatrical talent.

Not a small reminder to whom all of this is directed- God. And a stoiac reminder of how it is that we are able to share these gifts- because of what God through Jesus for us all. Thus, hovering above center stage (as well as within the faith of the cast and crew) will be the Presence of our Triune God.

Jesus is super- but not in ways the world would affirm. Jesus is a star- but not in ways He would want to be acknowledged.... but then you may need to see the show to help you understand that... See you there!

Saturday, July 3, 2010

America's Birthday Parade!

Happy Birthday America!

Why am I fascinated by simple joys like our local parade? Hot sun poured her heat on us as we scrambled into the street collecting tootsie rolls and suckers. My little family had a terrific time! The event was not very complicated, nor fancy. In fact, we knew lots of folks in the parade itself.

Local businesses, churches (including our own), the High School band, political candidates, scouts, American Legion veterans & their families, clowns, corvettes, tractors, old cars, and of course the local fire department, police department & town management complete the over 75 minute Americana festival via Brownsburg, Indiana style.

Maybe I am just a sucker for a parade, I guess. I cry through the Rose Parade (which is on my Bucket List to attend before I die) every year from my leather living room couch. My hubby sacrificed his warmth and sleep so that I had a great spot on the 2006 Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade route.

Marching in them during High School was about blisters and dehydration. Attending them with two preschoolers is about candy, candy and more candy! What is not to love about that! ha ha!

Today's parade was special- first time our family attended it together. Diana had the chance to show her Daddy something, not often that happens.

Maybe I like this parade because it is down home local goodness... makes you feel all warm and fuzzy like we actually do live together in a community!

Or it could be the sugar high.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Kiddos on the Labyrinth!

Our play date complete with pool and Popsicles today finished off with a labyrinth walk by my 5 and 1/2 year old (half a year is now significant to her) and her buddy. They walked on his mother's grass Medieval labyrinth on their family's property.

Dripping in their swimming suits and either barefoot or in flip flops they walked together or at least tried to walk together. We mothers witnessed this metaphor in the making with laughter, tears and understanding.

The ongoing commentary between my long legged girl and her lean, mean (as in tough because he had a noticeable swagger) male companion was something to overhear...

"Hey, that's not the way."

"Slow down, you're supposed to walk..."

"You don't know where you're going, I'll lead."

"I am faster than you."

"(sigh) When are we going to get to the center."

"Hey wait, I gotta take my Mom these flowers."

"I know how to do this..."

"Race you!"

"Finally, we're here!"

She would lead when he stopped to look into snake holes or pick flowers for his mom. He would insist on leading because "he knew the way". They tried to walk together at one point each within a different 'ring' but discovered it just wouldn't work that way!

By the time they finally reached the center (we never did figure out how they made it because they changed their trajectory too many times), they busted out and over the path only because popsicles awaited them!

Delightful, just delightful to witness young souls practicing the art of walking the path!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

2010 Knight Family Garden Blog #1

After a quick peek back through my various blog entries, there was a noticeable gap in content. You're heard nothing about our garden project for this season. We apologize for the inconvenience and lack of coverage on this important subject.

Tomatoes (large Big Boys and cherry), Carrots, Peas, Corn, and Sunflowers fill our garden this year. Our Diana is a happy little farmer! She checks the garden first thing in the morning and then every two to four hours during the day. Thus, her intimate knowledge of our fledging crops is precise, specific and very very detailed. Every bloom, bud, and flower has been announced and pronounced throughout the town of Avon, Indiana.

Hopefully, we have planted the corn in such a way that it will cross pollinate properly so as to actually produce ears of corn! (We had great trouble with that last year). Also, our carrots have been thinned twice because we never did accomplish that last year and as a result produced stubby little bits of carrot all twisted on one another.

Diana's Kinderskills class field trip brought home a 'salad' in a pot which we promptly re-potted for growth. Since then we've produced two radishes that Diana does not like because "they are too spicey". Not sure what she'll think about onion she's growing.

In addition we have added two blueberry bushes that produce our daily intake of one blueberry each. Our Strawberry patch has dozens of blooms and our Diana thinks it will produce enough for us to make some strawberry jam! We'll see.

Every thing has grown tremendously with all of our rain... but we'll see how the remainder of the growing season goes... We did have to put in a fence around the corn (Duke decided to have a snack of the stalks).

Our rallying cry for the garden is ..."Let's be farmers, Momma!" Next year we've already got ideas about an herb patch and the cry will be "Let's eat, Momma!"

Sunburn'd

How you know you've truly sunburned your scalp? People notice it while you're preaching and when folks greet you after worship... they say things like,

"Geez, Michelle- do you not own a hat?"

"Where do you go last week, anyway?"

"Oh my gosh, I thought it was red but then when you were up there and all the lights....wow!"

There you have it, my scalp is bright Satan red! Doesn't matter which way I part my hair (which by the way is a white blond now)- it hurts to comb and brush these precious locks.

Sigh, I only hope my congregation is as forgiving next week when tiny flakes of skin will peel off during worship....

Sigh. Welcome, back!

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Promise of the Rainbow

Okay, Lord, a promise is a promise! You said that you'd never destroy the earth by flooding waters.... now we here in Indiana are holding you to your word.

We've had enough rain, storm, lightening, sewer backups, and thunder. Our little children are not sleeping in their beds. The grown ups are weary of picking up sticks and limbs. Our gardens and flower beds are saturated and soggy.

Please, dry us up! Sunshine, bring it!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

To all the Fathers...

Special thanks to all the fathers in our world: your love, care, protection, hard work are appreciated beyond measure! We need terrific men like you- thanks!

I am grateful for my Dad, step Dad, and father-in-love, Ed! Plus, my grandfathers (living and deceased) and my uncles (who are a hoot) have filled my life tremendously!

I have been blessed with all sorts of wonderful men who mentored, taught, and nurtured me from grade school, church, music lessons, band, college, and seminary! And my male colleague and friends continue to impress upon me the gift masculinity (in all it's various forms and shapes) is to our world. Thanks guys, for being you!

But the "Best Dad Award" goes to the daddy of my little girl- he is the best! And we cannot wait to celebrate with him when he gets home. This will be (God-willing) our last Father's Day apart from one another. Woo hoo!

Happy Father's Day!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Beginning of the End, Ending at the Beginning

Our little family marks a tremendous moment in our life together this weekend- this is Eric's last official race with the Indy Racing League as their full time software developer/project developer. As our daughter puts it, "Bye bye to Daddy's bye-bye trips!"

We are now officially sojourning in that weird and strange land of endings and beginnings; otherwise known as 'transition space'. While we say goodbye to many things, we are saying hello to new experiences. Sadness and joy seem all mixed together with a dash of apprehension, wonder, and nervousness.

We are trying to figure out what comes next in our life together. We know that it no longer includes suitcases and intense traveling the next three months. It does mean we will need to figure out how to live together again especially during the remaining part of summer.

Fascinating to note how many of our sacred stories from scripture come out of transition spaces as well. Folks traveling from here to there; receiving a call and then answering it like Sarah and Abraham, or Cleopas and his Easter travel companion. Starting something new for God and then their attempts to follow through like Paul and Barnabas, or Priscilla and Aquilla.

What a relief! We won't be alone in the newness or awkwardness of our 'transition space' we will be with good travel company after all!

the Vacation Bible School week...

Whew- we've been on a cosmic adventure this week exploring all things spacey with our young cadets. I had little time to stop and write a blog (mostly I was too tired when I got home and needed my grown up sized nap!)

Despite three thunderstorms- we were never rained on during VBS this week. All children were accounted for and seemed to have a terrific, fun experience!

I told and re-told the stories of Creation, Elijah on Mount Horeb (or Sinai), Samaritan woman at the well, the blind beggar man Jesus healed, and the two disciples on the road to Emmaus on Easter evening- four times each this week! Along with my wonderfully talented youth helper- Rebecca (see the Samaritan woman).

We were amazed at the children's attention to the stories, interest in our silly dancing song- Bim Bom, and enjoyed their wonderfully hard hugs!

As I posted on Facebook yesterday- I may be tired, but would somebody, please, ask me again to be storyteller next year! I was so inspired by the growing faith of these 200 young people and all of the terrific youth, college age, young adult and adult helpers!

YOU made it wonderful to tell and re-tell our sacred stories together!

Friday, June 11, 2010

Passing the Time at Annual Conference

Day 2 of the Indiana Annual Conference began with a noisy neighbor down the hall...now, as we sit in the auditorium and ponder all things United Methodist I want to offer some hard-earned nuggets of wisdom about how to thrive while attending days of meetings with clergy and lay folk from all over Indiana.

  1. bring your yoga mat- helps you work out the kinks from sitting all day on aqua colored auditorium seats constructed circa 1957.
  2. laptop and other computer modem capability (iPhone or iPod) devices are a must in order to know that life does exist beyond the air conditioned auditorium.
  3. be ready to answer, "How are you?" with a pithy quip for those who don't really want to know how you are, but ask politely because we are surrounded by religious leaders. save your real earthy answer for your real friends and share it over adult beverages later in the evening. Or shake things up by being brutally honest no matter who asks. take note of the responses.
  4. pack snacks.
  5. visit the Prayer Room at least twice.
  6. find two people who need you to help them feel welcome. and offer them kindness and hospitality.
  7. alert your staff that you will be chatting with them via Facebook to find out how things are going at 'home'.
  8. pack extra business cards to share with friends or future friends or to remind the powers that be that yes you indeed are 'one of them'.
  9. bring your VBS materials to read through yet again when the speaker becomes redundant.
  10. water bottle is a must because you will be singing a lot with a group of people who not just know the songs, but LIKE to sing them! Robustly!

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Race Tracks and Labyrinths

The plot of my "novel" life goes like this...

Girl calls boy for coffee.
Boy meets girl.
Girl and boy fall in love with each other.
Boy marries girl.

Boy likes race cars. Vrrrrrrrrmmmmmm!
Girl likes labyrinths. Calm, quiet. (crickets) Shh!

Race tracks and labyrinths seem to be similar (they both are circular and have one path to follow), but are not really alike at all (one is about speed, the other is about reflection).

Boy travels to race tracks all over the world.
Boy loves the excitement, the thrill, the testosterone.

Girl stays at home and walks labyrinths.
Girl loves the inner quiet, the deep stillness, the contemplation.

Boy likes what makes his girl happy.
Girl likes what makes her boy happy.

Girl likes race tracks a bit more than she used to.
Boy likes labyrinths a bit more than he used to.

Girl and boy find creative ways for race tracks and labyrinths to be a part of their family life! And everyone is happy.

The end.

Dorm Life- again?

One would think that by the time you celebrate your thirty-ninth birthday for the first time that dorm life is an experience from the far off, distant past. Not so.

My rear end sunken into a less-than-fully-coiled-mattress on a bunk bed proves otherwise.

Dorms are a bit different now. Wi-fi travels everywhere on campus. Bathrooms are shared among 'suite mates'. And there is this new technology called air conditioning. Have you heard of it? Believe me, my hot days and sultry nights on University of Evansville's campus in Moore Hall were lived by a box fan and a bowl of ice chips.

Dormitories should be different these days since the cost of college education has inflated over 400% in the past several decades. Not sure if the paper my degree is printed on has increased in the same value. Maybe I can put it on eBay or Craigslist and see what happens?

I do want to give a shout out to all my former college roommates! God bless you for putting up with me. I beg your forgiveness for my pet peeves, crazy music schedule, addiction to all things Star Trek and geeky, and knack to collect a 'wide variety' of friends. Thanks for tolerating me and sometimes liking me. You deserve a room all your own! :)

Akemi, Joy, Maggie, and Tammy- you made me a better roommate for my graduate school apartment mates (Alicia and Jacqueline) and of course, my husband thanks you all for teaching me how to share! ;)

Gotta go, I think I have locked myself out of my bathroom...again. Where is a RA when you need one?

Dance, Dance, Dance

Last weekend our (formerly) shy, wee and premature daughter took the dance stage with her head reaching for the stars and her smile wide as the Grand Canyon! Her parents (that's me and Eric) were stunned!

Now that she's had a taste of the lights and 'the show' excitement, I do believe she is hooked. Fall classes cannot start soon enough for her.

Most of all Diana was completely swayed by technology new to her: glitter hairspray! "We must get some, Momma!" was her command.

My daughter has joined an ancient, beloved tradition of manipulating her body in time to music so as to join the heavens in celebration of all that is good in life. Especially celebrating the Giver of all Good- our God. Our tiny little dancer, unbeknown to her, is a Psalmist, a wisdom sayer, and a prophetess as much as she is a glitter wearing diva! Just look at the evidence in scripture!

Praise God with tambourines and dancing;
Praise God with stringed instruments and flutes. Psalm 150:4 NCV

There is a time to be sad and a time to dance. Ecclesiastes 3:4b NCV

Then, Aaron's sister Miriam, a prophetess, took a tambourine in her hand. All the women followed her, playing tambourines and dancing. Exodus 15:20 NCV

May you dance with happy feet unto the Giver of all Good Things!

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Pilgrimages

Last week while I vacationed three of my favorite people from Calvary were on pilgrimages. I love being a pilgrim. How about you?

Two of these friends were traveling all around Israel. They were visiting sites of Jesus, the disciples, and the ancient Hebrews from the Old Testament. It was the fulfillment of a life long dream to go and be a pilgrim in the Holy Land.

My other dear friend (who is more in love with labyrinths than I am) traveled to Chartres, France to visit the Notre Dame Cathedral of Chartes and it's wonderful labryinth. She has been wishing and hoping for this pilgrimage for many years and I am thrilled for her that she's now been there and done that!

While these friends were going about their spiritual journeys, I finished reading an insightful book on the way, or the journey which uses the labyrinth as a metaphorical tool. Here are a couple of keen insights from my reading that helped me reflect on my journey and also aided me in my prayers for my pilgrim friends...

Both the labyrinth and traditional pilgrimages are tools for teaching us the skills of self- observation, letting go, getting centered- aligning with the Divine, and taking action. (Eve Eschner Hogan Way of the Winding Path page 15)

In the name of God, stop a moment, close your minds, look around you. Leo Tolstoy

If we really want to pray, we must learn to listen; for in the silence of the heart God speaks. Mother Theresa of Calcutta


See you on the path- fellow pilgrim!

May's Vacation

Last week was a wonderful time of rest, renewal and relaxation! Sometimes you just don't realize how much your mind and heart need a change of pace until you give them a different schedule. Or give yourself a different kind of To Do list.

Here is a brief version of my 'vacation' accomplishments! ha ha!

  • Indianapolis Children's Musuem- did it.
  • Indianapolis Zoo- did it.
  • Friend's pool- did it.
  • Nap- did it.
  • Cleaned house- did it.
  • Library- did it.
  • Watched movies- did it.
  • Cook out- did it.
  • Time in the hammock- did it.

One of my Facebook friends told me that a vacation in which you do not travel but remain at home is called a "stay-cation". Well, this was one of the best!

Now, it is back to the real world! (sigh)

Friday, May 21, 2010

Graduation!

In and amongst Mother's Day and six birthdays within the family, May becomes full of graduation announcements... kindergarten, high school, college, and graduate school. The local card shop sees me coming and get out the BIG BAG for the plethora of cards, gift wrap, and trimmings I require to get through the month.

Yesterday at our Calvary Learning Academy graduation, my eyes puddled up with tears as the kindergarten students marched in to Pomp and Circumstance with their bright blue graduation gowns. Happens to me every year. Must be allergies. (Next year will be a very bad year of 'allergies' because my kiddo and two of my other favorite young people will graduate!)

Now that I am no longer graduating from anything I get really sentimental and emotional about these sorts of things. Cannot figure out why.

Is it about achievement? Young people reaching for their dreams? Reaching out to the next challenge? Or is it about all the debt young people incur for their higher education and the loans that I know can weigh them down?

Whatever the cause of my emotional response, graduations are indeed distinguishing marks in time and life circumstance. They are simply another marker on the path...


Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Favorite Re-Think Church Moments!

Last Sunday was an awesome day! It may have been overcast in the skies above, but our hearts and hands were not clouded at all! Below are some of my most precious ReThink Sunday moments.

My heart was reminded how BIG the LOVE of God is. My soul was reminded how joyous it is when people come together for a common purpose of compassion, service and love. And my song was reminded that harmony can only be achieved when we set our sights beyond ourselves!

Which begs the question, what was your favorite Rethink Sunday moment?
  • receiving surprised, delighted emails and phone calls from Brownsburg and Hendricks County leaders who were truly touched by our intention around Rethink Sunday! They needed our prayers and were so grateful to receive them.
  • riding on a charter bus for four hours of prayer with some of my favorite praying people!
  • listening to our teens, adults and children pray out loud for firefighters, schools, women who experience violence, town leaders, the hungry, the poor, for families... wow- we have folks at Calvary who know how to pray! Awe-inspiring!
  • meeting a man in his neighborhood who asked me as I jumped off the bus for a photo, "Lady, are you lost?" And hearing myself respond, "No, sir I have been found because I am from Calvary UM church and we are in your neighborhood this morning to pray for you."
  • passing ourselves throughout Brownsburg! It was awesome to be on the bus all morning and seeing other Calvary folks on the other Rethink charter bus at two different nursing homes to make music, OR working at Elsie's house on Green Street, OR planting flowers at Arbuckle Acres, OR along Main street in town picking up trash! How cool was that to 'pass ourselves in mission, outreach, service and prayer!'

Thanks everyone- (staff, lay leaders etc) for a fantastic first glimpse of Rethink Church! See you next year, but let's not wait on that. Let's BE and DO church every day between now and then!

Monday, May 17, 2010

May Showers bring June ??

Rain. That is what we're seen, walked in, and felt for most of May already. I am going to wear out my lawn mower before it's time in just this one month alone. That is if the grass is dry long enough to mow it again... My neighbors apparently have stopped mowing their backyard all together. They are letting it go to seed it seems.

What do May showers bring? June floods? June flowers? Mold? or more grass to mow?

Maybe I can get lucky and get fired from mowing the lawn again.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Rethink, rethought, & rethunk...

Rethink is almost here!

Our staff and congregation have been preparing for this coming Sunday's ReThink Church day for months now. Meetings, phone calls, photocopies, organizational sessions, sign ups, and all sorts of behind-the-scenes prep work will culminate in a congregation of over 750 members NOT worshipping on a Sunday morning. ha ha!

That's right we will get up off our Christian pews and GO INTO THE WORLD in compassionate service, prayer, outreach and mission. We will worship, sort of, by putting our love of God into action on other persons' behalf. That translates into children, youth and adults...
  • preparing casseroles for needy families
  • writing our military folks
  • sending thank you notes to UM clergy in Indiana
  • spreading mulch on our playground
  • baking Holy Communion bread for June's communion weekend
  • painting our Calvary Learning Academy wing
  • planting flowers at one of our town's local parks
  • repairing an elderly widow's kitchen floor, cleaning up her yard etc.
  • canvasing new neighborhoods with clever church info paraphernalia
  • sharing a 'love gift' with a needy family from our community
  • cleaning up trash along our local roads
  • writing notes to our shut-in members
  • sharing music (by our children, handbell, and adult choirs) at two local nursing homes with their residents
  • praying for our local town, businesses, schools, fire and police departments, food pantries, jail, shelter for women who've been abused, etc on a huge charter bus that will 'roll through out the county'
  • doing a variety of outdoor beautifying projects for our church facility and grounds
The hoped-for outcome of such a huge, risky and somewhat cumbersome undertaking? Well, sometimes it is hard to measure and quantify the work of God's people. Maybe we will discover how much God loves us, and how much we love God in return as other people are touched through us with God's loving compassion.

That is difficult to measure, but very notable when it does happen. Here's to a great Rethink Day!